To a harasser (aka sick animal):
It’s not my fault!
I don’t want your finger in my butt!
I don’t want you rubbing your elbow to my breast!
I don’t want to hear how do you want to put it in me!
Don’t tell me that some girls want it because it’s not harassment then you idiot!!!
If you see that my clothes are inappropriate, you do NOT have the right to do ANYTHING about it!!!
When I say no, I won’t change my mind when you pull out a knife!!!
Trust me, I really won’t change my mind!
You are a sick bastard!
To a harassed girl:
You encourage him to do more if you keep your mouth shut!
Speak up, scream, yell, just don’t let him get away with it!
Do you know that he brags about it with his friends?!
Do you know he’s proud with what he has done to you?!
Will you let him move on with his life and look for another prey?!
It’s his fault to harass you, but it’s your fault to let him go unpunished!!
Don’t be ashamed, it’s what HE is supposed to to!
Don’t make him prevent you from living normally!
Make him suffer!!
Golaniya, you inspired me to write this but believe me I talked before bas “la 7ayata leman tonadi”!!
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Well my friend: it seems that harassment will never end, here is an advice for harassed girls, use self defense spray (pepper spray) straight forward in his eyes, don’t hesitate make it a sever injury for him to remember it forever and to think about it when ever he thinks of harassing any one
Excellent post NightS..
Well put, very eloquent.
I salute you.
This is so going to be post on our blog.
In fact, you’ve just inspired me to create it right now!!
NightS,
this is my first time visiting your blog.
I just wanna thank you for a great post. Hope u’d be interested in join golaniya and i in our fight against sexual harassment.
o2a, it has to end!!!!
golaniya, that’s great..can’t wait 😀
failasoof, ahla w sahla 🙂 thanks for the visit, comment and the invitation, Razan told me about it and i’m so interested ofcourse 🙂
Great post, i read what golaniya wrote and honestly i was pissed off.
I never thought that it is that f***in ugly out there! i never heard about or saw such things in Lebanon.
So spray him in the eyes and kick him in the nuts until they drop off.
But i hope that you don’t take it all on men in general not all men are like that.
And so much for our religious societies filled with faith and taqwa, we have the most hypocrite societies on earth.
It has to end but how? talking about it in blogs is not enough, you should make a group and become civil activists, talk in media make pressure for new laws and new means to secure public transportation. Promote civil awarness about the subject.
Yalla everything starts as a small idea, get motivated and let it grow.
Rany, lek in Lebanon mafi kteer, but I was physically harassed in the Beirut-Saida minibuses, but never in the streets…the knife thing was when i lived in egypt…
anyway, yes blogs won’t solve it..bas it’s a start to grow as you said!
keep fighting ladies, keep fighting until you win, do not quit, and we are behind you to support you, if you need any 😀
i can tell that u very brave to write such words.. ppl can talk about it as a social problem but not in this way =)
in the first paragraph u used, i don’t know what to call it,, but ur way was.. “strong”! something like that .. khara 3laihon bel neheye..
blessed
Afnan
we will dancing solo 🙂
afnan, 3afeke…khara 3laihon kellon sawa 😀
A couple of months back I heard of a girl in maadi that committed suicide for being harassed and it really pissed me off!
After my last encounter(the one you know of), I made a promise to myself that next time something like this happens I WILL BREAK THE BASTARD’S NOSE (very easy, yet very painful)! So that way, he’ll have proof of it when he’s bragging about it to his friends! Maybe the impact would go beyond just one fricken person…
just to let you know: you have no idea how happy i was when i read about it in your blog…you really made my day by standing up and everything!
Congratulations, a bold courageous girl, to write such an article.
But thats good cause these things happen but nobody dare to mansion it.
it’s not just me salam, few other girls are speaking up too
thanks for your visit 🙂
salam
thats why I encouraged you,cause as you said few girls are speaking
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